We can all learn something from MarvinSo, we need two controller's for the motor and they'll be shipped out today from Minnesota.They should be here by the weekend.Things are looking pretty good.Last night I grilled up a couple of rib eye steaks with some corn on the cob sliced tomato's and garlic bread.We drank a bottle of Merlot and properly celebrated Marvin's 69 birthday.
Last night I was lying in bed wondering how is it that I can all of a sudden have a 69 year old stranger as a really good friend? You know, it's not that big of a boat and we're living in close quarters.There's a lot of getting out of one an other's way.Not to mention some severely stressful situations we've encountered.I don't know about you,but I tend to get a little surly under stress.Through it all we've managed to keep an even keel, and our friendship is a testament to that.While stranded on the sand bar I was seriously considering moving on, and Marvin even said, If you want to leave the boat and get back to riding your bike, I understand.But you know what? The fuckers got heart.And at 69, with two titanium knee replacements,and two shoulder operations he is one tough cookie.Not to mention, a wonderful human being,father and friend.Yeah, I'm learning a lot about sailing, but more important,I'm learning a lot about myself and how I relate to others.I'll come out of this experience a better person.I'm committed to sailing with Marvin to San Fransisco, so he can see his 18 month old granddaughter and get back to warmer weather where his bones wont ache.I've never felt more alive than these last 82 days on the road and sea.If at 69 I can be as much alive as Marvin,then I'll truly be living life to the fullest.
I am certain Marvin also,is learning something from the incomparable Lenny Sales. Humanity is served well by two individuals who get it about being in this thing called life together. We are all truly one. And as I read your words about being open to this stranger, grasping and exchanging love and knowledge, I am reminded of why it was that we became such close brothers. You and Marvin are both lucky to be in each other's company. I am grateful to read your introspective thoughts, and reflections on them. I am enriched for having the opportunity.
ReplyDeleteWhen you and Marvin get back on the high seas may the wind be at your back, the sun and moon shine sweetly on your cheeks and the journey as rewarding as the destination. To quote a lyric from one of my favorite songwriters songs....."I wish you well"....
Sending much love and affection to you my friend...I miss you.
Daney